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Welcome to The UK based Swinging podcast brought to you by 'Biproperswingers'. It is our hope to give a very honest insight into the swinging world within the UK. Our names are Paul and Charlotte and we are pretty well known on the scene. If you’re swingers I bet you can find us. With a combined time on the swinging scene of around 21 years, we have a substantial amount of experience and knowledge of how it all really works. Our hope is to dispel some of the myths about the lifestyle and help spread the good experiences we've all have had while navigating this beautiful lifestyle of ours.

 

We feel society as a whole doesn't really know that much about this very special, hedonistic community and we hope to enlighten a lot of minds about what it truly is all about! Real current social attitudes towards sex and the swinging scene itself, we want to spread awareness with the aim of educating at the same time. Real interviews with other genuine swingers and those to who have transitioned into and out of the lifestyle. The alternative lifestyle's are just as valuable as the main stream part of society and by building bridges; informing them about the real deal becomes that much easier. 

We'll take you on a very special journey inside the clubs around the country and the adult industry providers to share what is really out there including that of the usually unspoken fetish scene. We'll give honest and un-bias reviews of the scene, from the sex toys, shops to holidays. We'll do our upmost to provide the best advice for people who are curious and want to try it, but sadly won't or can’t, due to the fear of being judged. We were both once newbies and still occasionally get nervous; it's completely natural to feel apprehensive of the unknown. But through research and hearing from others (their own personal stories); getting a real idea of what is to be expected will help those nerves become excitement. As we don't want to give a prejudiced perspective on anything we discuss, we will very openly examine the up's and downs, as well as the positives and negatives. We hope that the knowledge we've gained through our own personal experiences within the community; be it the bad ones or the out of this world amazing ones, we want to enable people to open their minds instead of closing them off.

Exploring a wide range of different topic's like 'what is a unicorn?', 'The sheer level of respect you get in the clubs', 'The power is usually within the hands of the woman', and many, many more.

 

Although we are not new to doing podcasts, there can be somewhat of a bit of a wait between episodes; so apologies. But we're brutally real and completely unscripted; it sets us out from the rest, we hope hehe. It's why our material can be, at times - a little all over the place but it's that randomicity and funniness that helps us to deliver a great listen. We hope our own personal journey can be a life raft for all of you sexy (possible) newbies to begin to cling on with - in this crazy ocean of ethical non mahogany. With our experience, we hope to guide you and in time; alongside practice, you too can  get into the swing of things! It's not all rainbows and unicorns (see what we did there hehe) but through learning about the down - sides as well as the positive's, you can stop yourself from making the rooky mistakes we once did. 

We’ve been blogging our lifestyle journey online via our blog and the podcast for just over 4 years now; and without a doubt – have loved every single second of it! We love to educate the main stream part of society about the negatives & positives of our amazing lifestyle/ community and feel very humbled when we hear about success stories of those amazing people who have joined the alternative lifestyles as result of seeing our social media, or listening to our podcast. 

Along side the blog and possibly a patreon in the near future, we will continue to keep educating the vanilla world - (aka, the mainstream part of society) about those stigmas, misconceptions about the alternative lifestyles and more importantly what they are missing! 

Love doesn't always look the same and that is absolutely fine.

So, if your at all curious, then maybe it's time :)

Come and dive into the world of swinging 

with us, both bi, but not at all bias. 

We are both out and proud about our sexuality and are proud advocates for the LGBT+ communities. 

Being in a LGBT relationship 

For Years I was shunned for being bisexual and for enjoying other bisexual people. But Coming out was an internal conflict in of itself.

 

Our podcast was up for an actual award last year at the prestigious Fetish Awards, which we personally attended.

We didn't win, but my word, what an experience it was! It was still amazing to be nominated in the first place. We were even interviewed by the incredible Lana Wolf.

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Wait, there's more awards?!

                                Absolutely there is!

 

The swinging lifestyle is beginning to get it's it's proper acknowledgement amongst the alternative lifestyle spectrum; with an amazing award ceremony - brought to you by the same team behind the Twisted Edge Magazine :) 

With a vast selection of categories for both the adult lifestyle and the alterative lifestyle, covering every single talent across the bored; ensuring no achievement goes unnoticed... 

Although we've been nominated; we're not expecting to win at all but just to be apart of something this incredible for the community is enough for us; that's the true award!!!! 

2026 NOMINATIONS ARE OPEN ALREADY. So go and see just how easy it is to nominate yourself or someone else you feel deserves to be properly awarded for their work within the community! 

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The Podcast didn't win anything...

But the competition was fiercely sexy; so it wasn't that much of a surprise! Although my Blog made it into the top 3, which was unbelievably amazing. I was buzzing for weeks and both me and Paul have always - always been been a 'It's not about winning, it's about taking part' duo. So as long as we're having fun and helping our community; that's all that matters! 

You may hear us rant on non-stop about the biggest adult lifestyle festival - aka the one and only swingathon-fetfest, well do not fear, the link to their website is here

It takes place only once a year but it is by far the most amazing alternative (adult) lifestyle event ever.  

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Want to read more about what it's like to experience a kink event?

Even if your an experienced swinger, going to a kink night/ event may seem daunting, so have a read to one of our own personal experience's. 

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About the blog

The ninja conflicted is a thought-provoking blog, which is full of fiction- as well as Psychology, politics and differences within society. Beware; the truth may leave you a little conflicted...

For the spicy link

Please, please be mindful that Paul is, very much bi too; so please be aware of this beautiful fact before proceeding...

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We do absolutely all we can to help introduce newbies into the scene and give them that invaluable advice on how to take that curiosity further; but due to other business adventures/ commitments - plus me (char) is currently writing two books. Due to this - we can’t always be there for all of your questions.

Please do contact Jem and Daz, who have started their incredible ‘Intimacy Academy.’ They’re absolutely phenomenal and are, without a doubt, on par with our level of experience (if not more!) when it comes to the ENM communities. They have an incredible understanding of the lifestyle and so much wisdom to share—not just about the lifestyle, but about relationships in general, even for those who are completely monogamous.

I sent their completely free—yes, you heard me correctly, free—guides to a friend of mine who isn’t even part of the adult lifestyle communities.

 

She and her partner hadn’t had sex for so long that they had unknowingly ended up in a cycle of secretly resenting each other’s existence, and that free ‘Passion’ guide really helped them. Sometimes, a simple, honest conversation can help put everything into perspective…

It's one of the reasons why these two amazing advocates are on here! By helping people to determine if the adult lifestyle is right for them, they first need to ensure they're relationship is strong off it. This is key in helping people to build strong relationships on it! Jen & Daz are great at this! 

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